How did you feel when news of your father’s death got to you?
I felt terribly bad, it was shocking to me when I got the news because I was still on my way back to Ibadan from my home town, Ipoti Ekiti after I had gone to see him when I was called that he had passed on.
How did it happen?
I believe Baba (father) had premonition of his death, he knew he was going to die because he called me a week before his demise that he wanted to celebrate his birthday. I was very happy because he had never celebrated his birthday before. Even when he clocked 70, I wanted to celebrate his birthday for him, and I told him I want to put something together for him, and stopped me from doing it, because he was of the belief that anybody who celebrates birthday won’t live long. So I was very surprised when he called me to tell me that he is planning to celebrate his 76th birthday.
He started calling me a week before he died asking me to come around for his birthday, and he had called my siblings too to invite them. I told him I am not coming because if it is going to be a celebration, I am suppose to be the one planning it, not him. He said that is what he wanted to do. His birthday was October 12, he called me a day before, October 11 around 8.30pm, and I told him that I would love to be at home or church with and host people that will of course want to celebrate with us, and he said it’s not necessary that I should send anything that I want to send, so I sent it some money.
So, very early in the morning of October 12, I called him and he sounded unhappy, and I asked him you want me to come? He said yes. So I put myself together and went to Ipoti. I got to Ipoti around 12 noon and he was already in the church, so I just went straight to my own house and waited for him to come back from church. I called him few minutes later to tell him that I am around and he was so excited. Usually, my father comes to my house whenever I am in Ipoti, even if I didn’t tell him that I am around, once he sees that the there is light in my house , he will know that I am around and he will just come over . So I asked him that where are we going to meet , because my car cannot get to his house , and he told me to park anywhere that he will come and meet me , and I said I am going to park on the main road close to his house .When I got there I saw him waiting for me already on the main road .When I saw him , he was looking very good and very healthy.
He even asked me if he should come inside my car and help me get down, and I said ‘Baba e maa bere wahala yin niyen’ ( meaning you have started with your wahala) , we just joked as usual and he held my hand and squeezed it and showed me his arm , and I said Baba , you are looking smaller , and he said this is how I am going to go back to my creator, and I was like what are you saying ? Before I went to Ekiti , I told my tailor to do him a heavy Agbada, so I took it home and gave it to him and he was so happy . When he received it he prayed for me and said “you are our father now, you are our leader and we are all happy with you”. I gave everybody around money, and I left .About seven minutes after I had left Ipoti, they called me that Baba Ayefele is gone, I was like this can’t be true. They rushed him to Federal Medical Centre, Ido . I asked them to give the phone to the doctor, and the doctor said they are waiting for me because they want to pack him. I said pack who ?, I just left him not quite long. That was how it happened.
Credit : City People Online Magazine
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